My parents told me why I should celebrate a country that doesn't care about me.
Funny your father said that. My mother in law (87 y.o) moved to the Unites States about ten years ago. She has never worked in the U.S. or paid any taxes, but she gets about $900.00 a month in her bank account (SS from husband and other social benefits from the government). She gets Medical, Medicare. She doesn't pay a penny of medical insurance. She qualifies for housing benefits and is planning to get them.
EDIT to add:
I forgot to write that she is a zealous JW who constantly calls the government of Satan corrupt